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The Self-Tape Setup Guide  ·  A Field Reference
Coaching with Corey
The Complete Field Guide

The Self-Tape
Setup Guide.

Get it clean. Stop overthinking it. Start acting.

Here's the part nobody tells you Most self-tapes aren't rejected because of talent — they're rejected because something feels off before the acting even starts. And the frustrating part? Most families never realize this is the reason they're not getting callbacks.
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Start Here · The Most Important Rule
Always read casting's instructions first.
Every casting office is different. If they ask for something specific, do that, exactly. Everything in this guide is your default setup when no instructions are given.
What's Inside · 14 Setup Rules
01Frame
02Camera & Position
03Lighting
04Sound
05Reader
06Eyeline
07Background
08Wardrobe
09The Slate
10Full Body Shot
11Props
12Editing
13File Labeling
14File Type & Size
01
Frame. Get this wrong, nothing else matters.
Non-Negotiable
  • Frame just above the head to mid-chest
  • Keep headroom tight — no floating heads
  • Camera horizontal, always
  • No vertical video, ever
Too much space above the head and it already looks wrong before your kid says a word.
Medium Close-up
Medium Close-Up Frame
Tight frame — just above the head to mid-chest. Too wide = no connection. Too tight = no movement.
02
Camera & Position.
Foundation
  • Camera 2–3 feet in front of the actor
  • Background 2–3 feet behind the actor
  • Camera at eye level
  • Always stable — tripod or solid surface
Never hold the phone while filming. Ever. Even if you think you're steady — you're not.
Self tape setup diagram
Proper Self-Tape Setup
Camera 2–3 ft in front. Backdrop 2–3 ft behind. This creates depth and separation — so your kid doesn't look flat on camera.
03
Lighting. This is what makes or breaks the tape.
Make-or-Break
  • Main light source behind the camera
  • Face clearly lit, no dim zones
  • Avoid shadows on the face
  • Do NOT stand in front of a window
If your kid looks like they're under interrogation, casting already checked out. If we can't clearly see their eyes — fix this before anything else.
Three point lighting
3-Point Lighting, Simplified
Light comes from behind the camera — not behind the actor. If the lighting looks like a YouTube studio, you're not helping the performance. You're distracting from it.
04
Sound. More important than the video.
Make-or-Break
  • Quiet indoor room
  • No echo — carpet, curtains, soft surfaces help
  • Clear, natural voice
  • Optional: lapel mic (hidden or nearby)
The Reader Volume Rule

Readers almost always sound louder than the actor because they're sitting closer to the mic. This kills the scene.

  • The reader should aim for about half the volume of the actor
Lapel Mic Placement
The Lapel Mic Fix
The reader is closer to the mic — so they sound louder. Keep the reader at half volume, or clip a simple lapel mic on the actor. Clean audio is the single easiest upgrade most parents skip.
05
The Reader.
Essential
  • Must be a real person — never self-read
  • Stand just off camera, right next to the lens
  • The actor looks at the reader, not the camera
  • Reader doesn't "perform" the scene
The reader supports the scene. They don't star in it.
A weak reader doesn't just lower the quality of the tape — it changes your child's performance. You can coach your kid for hours and watch it all collapse because the reader pulled them flat.
06
Eyeline.
Foundation
  • Look slightly off camera — left or right
  • Never directly into the lens (unless instructed)
We should feel a real conversation — not a presentation.
07
Background.
Clean It Up
  • Plain, neutral wall — white, gray, blue
  • Wall, backdrop, or curtain all work
  • No furniture, switches, or clutter
  • No green or blue screen
If casting notices the background, it's already a problem.
Backdrop Options
Good vs. Bad Backdrop
Plain wins. Always. Green screens and busy rooms pull focus straight off the performance — which is the opposite of the job.
08
Wardrobe.
Get It Right
  • Suggest the role — don't costume it
  • No logos, no loud patterns
Hint the character. Don't dress like Halloween.

A technically "perfect" self-tape that feels flat will lose to an imperfect one that feels alive. Every time.

— The whole point, in one sentence
09
The Slate (separate clip).
First Impression
The Basic Slate Info
  • Name
  • Age
  • Height
  • Location
Always follow casting's directions first. If they ask for something different, do that.
Slate Tips · This Is Your Edge

Be conversational — not robotic. The slate is the first thing casting sees. Make it count.

  • Use personality
  • Be relaxed
  • Add a small personal detail
  • No stiff, monotone recitations
Sample Slate
"Hi, I'm Corey, I'm 13, 5'2, based in LA… and a fun fact about me is I'm obsessed with turtles."
10
Full Body Shot (if requested).
If Requested
  • Film separately from the scene
  • Head to toe, fully visible
  • Vertical or horizontal both fine
  • Don't obsess over framing — just clear visibility
11
Props.
Less Is More
  • Usually: don't use them
  • If needed, keep it simple — phone, cup, etc.
When in doubt, don't.
12
Editing.
Keep It Clean
Cut These Out
  • Mistakes
  • Resets
  • Coaching
  • If requested: combine scenes + slate into one file
13
File Labeling. Matters more than you think.
Do Not Skip
Always follow casting instructions exactly. If none given:
  • Separate files: FirstLastName_Scene1Take1  ·  FirstLastName_Slate
  • Single file: FirstLastName_RoleName
Wrong labeling = not reviewed. It's that simple. Casting sorts through hundreds of tapes.
14
File Type & Size.
Technical
  • Format: MP4 only
  • Size: under 500MB
  • Avoid .MOV files
  • Use HandBrake to compress if needed
The iPhone Fix · Turn Off HEVC
Settings Camera Formats Most Compatible

The Final Check — read this before you send.

i.
Can we see them clearly?
ii.
Can we hear them clearly?
iii.
Does nothing distract us?
If yes to all three — you're done. Stop adjusting. Start acting.
Want This To Actually Book?

Setup gets you in the game.
The system gets you booked.

Most families try to solve this in pieces — a coach here, a lesson there, a friend reading. That's why it never quite works. This system fixes the whole process.

Here's the part most parents don't realize: your reading is shaping the entire performance — for better or worse. The scene your kid delivers is only as alive as the scene partner they're playing against.
Step 01
Bold Choices
What to play
The version of the scene that actually books, not the safe one.
Step 02
Prep101
Build the performance
Upload the sides, get a full breakdown. Walk in actually prepared.
Step 03
Reader101
Fix the read
A reader that actually reads — not a parent flattening the scene from off-camera.
This is what turns a "good" tape into the one casting remembers.
The Simple Setup Kit

Simple setup that works.
No overthinking required.

You don't need a studio. You need clarity. Here's the exact stack that gets you a clean, professional-looking tape — without turning your living room into a soundstage.

If your setup is wrong, even a great performance can feel flat. Start here, save the creativity for the acting.
Tripod Kit
Essential
Tripod
Stable. Eye-level. Non-negotiable. The single most important piece of gear.
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Ring Lighting
Essential
Ring Light
Face clearly visible, no harsh shadows. Remember to tilt up to avoid alien eyes. Softbox works too — whichever fits the room.
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Lapel Mic set
Big Upgrade
Lavalier Mic
Clean audio = watchable performance. iPhone-compatible, clips right onto the actor.
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Double Pop Up Set
Matters
Neutral Backdrop
Gray or blue. Keeps the eye on your kid — not on your Halloween decorations.
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Sturdy Phone Mount
Nice to Have
Phone Mount
Locks the phone to the tripod. Small thing, huge difference in stability.
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Your Next Self-Tape

Don't just record. Book.

Start with a custom breakdown of your kid's actual sides. Or get a reader that isn't you.

This guide fixes the setup. This is what fixes the performance.